Tuesday, August 13, 2013

World is becoming smaller but hearts are going apart



Our generation is most advances till now because we are living in 21th century. This is era of technology and fast communication that is social networking. Now there is no need to meet with old friends who live at distant places. Now you can connect with your friends with whom you study in 1st grade or to whom you met yesterday at a single place that is "social media". Social media is on more power because now you can use it on a go; means on you handheld devices like mobile or tablet. Facebook, twitter, whatsapp, wechat, skype etc. all are social media which also provide apps for mobiles too. Now you can connect with your friends and loved ones on a single platform and can get every little bit information second to second. So world has become so small and long distance just become fables. Communication was never so easy and fast as ever. But did we notice one thing?? Are we really come closer or went apart?? Before 20 years ago, no one would have imagined that communication will reach at this level. At that time, when we had to write letters to our loved ones and eagerly wait for their replies over months. We felt so much grace and joy in writing each single line and remember those reply letter for a long time. Relations still exist at that time and people do love too. They always thought that kash kuch aisa hota jisse hume dusre wale ki pal pal ki khabar milti rhe. It has happened today but simultaneously our hearts go apart. Now we do everything over social media. We share thoughts there, we share moments there, we share health there, fights there, break ups there. blah blah everything there!! But what has happened to our hearts. Now we do not care for emotions or feelings. Now we participate in debates and useless discussions just to show off our self images. What we show that is completely different in real & present. Sometimes we have to speak in manners while heart is filled with hatred. Sometime people do not respond just to show others how much busy they are in their life. We waste a lot of time in waiting for others and in useless cocktails.
          Is it a good way of living?? Why we make our self so much interested in others life?? Why we wait for responses by some people and ignore others? What is the need of wearing so much personality masks over again and again? Life is such a beautiful gift and we waste it on stupid things. No it should not be. Life can be used in exploring oneself. What I have inside?? Why I feel such like?? Why a thought come to my mind which disturb me?? So many things are there to explore about oneself. But we go on wondering outside, outside and outside. Just spend one hour for yourself and remaining for others. Don’t we need this!!